Ray Rice’s Wife Speaks Out: I Feel Like I’m Mourning the Death of My Closest Friend!

you said it right Razzi!!!

@Razzi — you got that right!
@ Brickouse….yes, to each their own but unfortunately, its back out there & people are going to voice their opinions regarding Domestic Violence. Also unfortunate that she hasn’t had a wakeup call, however, I pray for both of them and that their baby girl hasn’t witnessed any of this, nor will she ever.

What is this about really? Is it about ethics and morality? Or profit for media exploitation. Its so interesting to see how many domestic abuse advocates we have now. The same ones who condone all other moral unethical behavior on a daily basis in their high positions, their own businesses and lets not forget those who just a month or so ago were praising solange for the antics she conveyed and oh how she must have been provoked. But because its switched genders it is now a major concern, or the ones who were laughing at joseline and all the other reality shows that represent unruly women who act like wild animals attacking other women, men etc on national tv. BUT yet and still the ratings are even higher. All of a sudden you all know what is so best for janay? Really? Whats even more interesting is as a society of such cultural ethics knowledge we have not once thought about how this has affected a woman in which we have presented to the world as a victim. If our personal morality truly mattered when in private and we are saying it should affect our professional jobs, then policemen who have been put on paid leave after unethically murdering our children would be indefinitely fired and jailed, the many ceo’s many of us work for everyday, invest in and support would be shut down for embezzlement schemes, racism and injustice in the workplace. Government would be shut down, mass media would not be able to exploit the lives of entertainers, celebrities etc while diffusing the true issues at hand. Furthermore if you really cared about the wellbeing of an abused person man or woman in a physical sense then you must also be held accountable for the amount of abuse endured, emotionally, spiritually and mentally as well. You cant be biased in anger. Domestic abuse and Domestic altercations are two different things, and domestic abuse is a very serious matter, in which any one involved in a relationship of this sort man or woman should get help. However You nor I are acting in whats the best interest of the person many are claiming to be looking out for the best interest for. All this is doing is pimping their pain to the world. This isnt about truly helping janay this is about likes, comments, ratings and media coverage based on the opinions of people who could care less if she were dead, alive or even existed in the first place. Women claim to care about her really? then why when she makes a choice to stay she is called stupid, crazy, only staying cause of money etc. When many of you wonderful christian God believing people who say you read your bibles should also know no where in the bible does it say divorce, or leave your spouse for unethical behavior , nor does it say til death due you part as long as there is no fighting etc. What happened to for better or for worse and God being so powerful he can change all situations. God never said he will show other people your journey before he leads you on yours. You dont know what is going on in these people’s lives, yet everyone has an opinion. Everyone knows whats best yet no one has thought about the woman truly affected. Is what he did right, no. Does that make him a horrible person. NO . It makes him human, and every one will make a decision where someone will disagree and stone you to death verbally because of it. Everyone making a derogatory comment has some things that would reveal a flawed individual, money does not change the fact you are human. Mass Media will never give you 100 percent truth unbiased. This is the same media that released a video of Mike Brown in a convenience store days after he was brutally murdered, and to which the officer who actually murdered him is still as free man with paid leave, I guess that fight for justice took a back seat to the football player who hit his fiance who after became his wife. Any person looking out for the best interest in any person, knows that in any true domestic violence case, the victim is NEVER exploited. They are protected and secluded.Which is a clear indication that no one is attempting to create a safe environment or even have the best interest in what is best for her, and the fact that everywoman who stays with a man after an altercation is ridiculed and called stupid, dumb or incompetent of realizing she is abused is idiotic, its really no difference than someone staying with a man who cheats, verbally destroys you or a religious person who spiritually destroys you . Its all abuse and every time you open your mouth and speak negatively on people and their situations without having full understanding, is like speaking death into someones spirit and life. Many only can see God working through things if the powers that be are working in their favor, anything else we are blind. media is a programming entity. meaning its whole purpose is to plant seeds of program, it does not care who it affects or the lives destroyed because of it.