Basketball Wives’ Tami Roman Suggests Kesha Has A Producer In Her Pocket

On her personal blog site, Basketball Wives’ Tami Roman defends and explains her teeter-tottering friendship with Royce, tance with Jennifer and why she’s taken her particular stance with Kesha. In her post, titled ‘Bitch, Bitch & More Bitch’ she even infers that perhaps, Kesha has an advantage because she knows one of the producers. Peep a few excerpts below:
Keisha:
To be clear, upon meeting you, I asked you respectfully to discuss anything you had to say about me…WITH ME. I wasn’t confrontational nor was I argumentative. Of course that part was edited out of the show; however you, Royce and Kenya know what I said. When you spoke to Evelyn about me; it wasn’t what you said, but the fact that you said it. I don’t walk around with boxing gloves on and I don’t fight everyone I meet. I just feel you should’ve been a real woman and brought your concerns “directly” to me. I can assure you that if you had our dealings with each other might not be so rocky.
Do me a favor, don’t be such a liar and manipulator. I know you have friends in high “Executive Producer” places, but let’s keep this all the way real.
Sidebar:
I am NOT a bully. People don’t understand that Keisha is NOT innocent in this matter and she does a great deal of lip boxing behind the scenes. I am not going to try and be respectful when I have been disrespected numerous times…off camera. If you are bold enough to talk behind my back, then you should be grown enough to handle the repercussions of your actions and words. The editors have done a wonderful job of putting my outbursts on the show but not showing the full chain of events. My outbursts are real, but they are also driven by something which is conveniently being edited out when it comes to Keisha. Wish I had an executive producer in my pocket…I’m just saying
Tami has also apologized to Keisha:

With that said, do some of you still consider Tami a bully or is Keisha to blame in their escalated confrontation?
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So, Keisha had her producer force Tami to behave in the manner that she did? The producer wouldn’t have footage to manipulate, and I use that term loosely here, if she didn’t provide the behavior or footage for them to use in the first place.
Tami pleeze here you go again. I honestly think you are delusional as hell…..who do you think you are? You honestly think you can do and say what you want about anybody and it’s ok, but soon as someone say anything about you you have the right to bully them, I used to like you but you just got to the point you’re fucking annoying”blah blah blah blah blah. Nothing about you says woman, please get a life outside of BBW go to AA or get down with someone you know not afraid of you.
I agree…Just so we are clear, Nobody is allowed to say “Tami Roman” when she is not around??? BITCH PLEASE (in my tami voice)…Tami needs to practice what she preach…i liked up until this season. but now im not the only one who has turned against her…she is totally wasting her money on that anger management shit…IM JUST SAYING
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, Cabrini Green. I feel exactly the same way. I was in Tami’s corner until she made such a fool out of herself. Tami should direct that anger were it belong by getting “Big and Bad” on the people or person that molested/violated her! Why don’t she beat the hell out of that person/those people, have them arrested and gain back her sanity!!! And stop taking jealousy and everything else out on others! By the way…If Kesha was chummy with and Executive Producer…So the “FUNK” what! If it were Tami who was chummy with and Executive Producer, everything would be “Kool and the Gang”!! Grow up Tami…40 and 18 don’t mix!
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tami is a Bully, Evelyn is a bully and Shaunie is a phonie. Shaunie stop taking side and be a good mediator.
Tami WHO do u think you are? I would love for you to try that bullshit with someone who wont back down. You are CRAZY as hell. please take eome medication because clearly you have mental health issues. yoy are a grown ass woman/mother.. who cares what someone says about you? I bet your daughters are so proud to piont you out in the crowd and say… see that drunk loud CLASSLESS crazy lady? yeah thats my MOTHER.. not!!! i would be ashamed if you wete my mother. smh
With this broad its always someone elses fault that she shows such bad behavior on nationwide tv and she has apologized so we can all sit around the camp fire and sing songs she has left a terrible taste in ev1’s mouth u can forgive but not forget. She is so insincere with her apologies did she apologize to Meeka no does she mean it apparently not so cavalier and so fake. Because we surely cant believe our lying eyes its the producers fault.
oh and ps she surely needs to get a refund bcause therapy is not working 4 her she iz continuing to think that she can play mind games with million of people.
Amen marie3548
u said it all
Tami is soo full of shit. She needs to accept responsibility for her behavior and stop blaming everyone else. Even if Keisha said something off camera, she was still smart enough not to give the producers any ratchet ass behavior to film. And why is Tami so worried about Keisha’s executive producer friend? You practically have to surgically remove her from Shaunie’s ass. Is she jealous that Keisha’s Exec has more weight than Shaunie???
so when u cuss her keisha out, that was the producers in ur mouth. Tammy accept responsibility for ur actions.
I THINK TAMI WENT TO FAR CUZ SHE KNEW SHE COULD CUZ SHE KNEW KESHA WOULD NOT REACT AN SHE WENT WITH IT ALL AN ALL YALL ALL TALKED BOUT EACH OTHA!!
talking about she walked away from her purse….Tami u specificallly said “you aint getting your bag back until you apologize”….but thats the producer fault right….smmfh…liar
I knew the moment I saw her on bbw the was going down hill. I remember Tami from The Realworld on mtv. She was a trouble maker when she was on that show. She and her mother was living in a car. She got an abortion on national tv. She is trash. Shaunie should have left Tami in the welfare line.
Right, Jpeezy…If you get into a “Bait Car” and paw through it, then move the “Bait Car” across the street, the police still lock you up as a theif! Tami announced on the air she was taking the bag. Took Kesha’s bag to her room, and snooped around on Kesha’s cell phone! I would have had her ass arrested too! Then with everyone without a mind of their own shaking in their boots went along as Tami impersonated Kenya by saying she was Kenya and forgotten her hotel room key. The staff at the front desk could be fired for not checking ID, and now Tami technically committed “Breaking & Entering”, identity theft, and all committed destruction of private property punishable by law! If Tami jumps off the roof everybody will be jumping off with her out of fear, even Shaunie. Good thing Tami wasn’t a “Jim Jones” follower passing out cool aide to the Basketball Wives. Does anyone have free will? They act like the kids in the book, “Lord of the Flies”
This is the way that Tammi needs to be handled. If I were Kesha, I would tell Tammi that I dont want to hear it. Also, I would tell her that if she touches me not only will I send her to jail for assault, I will sue her. Ghetto chicks like her dont know any better. She has a gutter mentality.
Tami needs to realize that what she’s doing is just plain “STUPID” I was a fan of Tami’s… But now I just wish she was off the show.She is giving the show a bad name. She should quit or be fired.
I used to LOVE Tami but this is getting ridiculous and embarrassing. She’s become completely delusional and everything she said on last night’s episode was nonsensical. I would LOVE to see her (and Evelyn) try that with Kimsha Artest or Laura …. or even Malaysia.
Side note – Don’t know why but Kesha looked the prettiest I’ve ever seen her last night on the show.
I totally agree with everyone opinion of Tami. At first I loved her but now she is portraying the American image of the angry single unhappy black female. She is at the age to know her limits and alcohol for her is her no fly zone. Now let me say this, all of the started because messy women, Evelyn first then Suzie. Kesha felt as though she had a connection with Evelyn that is why she came to her in the beginning but Ev went running back to Tami like she had fire at her ass. For as Suzie, her slow talking ass, just has diarrhea of the mouth. She has had problems keeping conversations btw two ppl to herself since the first season. If I were Kesha, I would tap Suzie slow talking ass in the mouth.
So true,,,, her ass stays drunk and acts like a fool and the rest of the girls ,,,cuz there not ladies are stupid,
Tami, needs to get real HELP plain and simple and not those BS sessions she was having in earlier episodes with that fake counselor. There was nothing that Keisha said that warranted such a violent and rage filled display. This chick along with Eveleyn are bullies, dangerous and embarrassments to all mothers and women of color. I am so disappointed in Shaunie for not stepping in when this behavior is going on. It is like she is giving her stamp of approval and even makes excuses for these troubled womens actions. Jennifer did the right thing by filing a law suit because NO ONE should be hit, have bottles hurled at them, berated to the point they are trembling and in tears while the producer sits there next to them and does nothing!!!! Side note, that damn Susie needs a proper ass whooping for continuing to sit up trouble so that she is not a target. None of these women should deal with her anymore. Her character is worthless anyway because she adds nothing to the show. She was at the center of what fueled Tami and Keisha and I wish they would just get her ugly, boring, slow acting ass off the show.
@isthisreality—>ditto!!!
I only hope that after Tami, Evelyn and Shaunie watch this season back, that they truly see themselves as they really were. The producers used the footage that these chicks created, they did not use body doubles or stand ins. If you do not want to be viewed as a deranged, dangerous, ignorant bully, then DO NOT ACT LIKE ONE!!!! If you think this behavior is wrong then say so when it happens not when you get negative feedback from across the country. Their kids must be so very embarrassed….SMH
Tammy is definitely a bully with a lot of issues. It is hard to believe she is a mother of two girl….what an example she is setting. I remember Tami from The Real World; she displayed the same type of behavior….Her target at that time was a young comedian name David, who was one of her housemate, she was the cause of him leaving the show/house. David had to restore is integrity, for the stunt she putted. The other ladies(on BBWS), who were presented are also at fault. They are all cut from the same cloth, to allow that young lady to go thru that, they are no different from Tami.
I totally agree with everything you said. I don’t like Tami, but I have zero respect for Shaunie. She never acted as a moderator instead a instigater. Tami, should still be kicking Evelyn’s a_s
Over that non factor BS but she let Evelyn slide. She picks the weaker person to bullying . She knows she might get s fight from Evelyn. I won’t watch anything these two are in. I don’t buy either of their soul searching. Just good PR so not to lose fans and Evelyn needs to sell her makeup.
Tammy is definitely a bully with a lot of issues. It is hard to believe she is a mother of two girl….what an example she is setting. I remember Tami from The Real World; she displayed the same type of behavior….Her target at that time was a young comedian name David, who was one of her housemate, she was the cause of him leaving the show/house. David had to restore his integrity, for the stunt she pulled. The other ladies(on BBWS), who were presented are also at fault. They are all cut from the same cloth, to allow that young lady to go thru that, they are no different from Tami.
I knew I was the only one to think this Tammy lady was talking out of her ass!!! — saying Keisha is 30 some odd yrs old and acts like a kid cause she won’t come ask for her bag!! Bitch!!! You are the damn childish one for taking her bag! And, yes!!! You fucken stole it!!! No one should have to come “ask” for their bag or apologize to you to get their belongings back! All shoving her purse in your luggage..! Tammy! You IS one dumb bitch fool! Grow the fuck up. Think about what you say before u run ur mouth dumb ass. You are a bully, you make yourself look like a damn fool and I hope when you watch your dumb ass ramble on TV, you will see the idiot u make yourself look like! Amen!!
Was NOT*** the only one
Tami is bully just like Evelyn and Shaunie. Not one of them stopped Tami from stealing Keisha’s purse. Tami even said she should keep the sunglasses and Evelyn went thru her phone while Tami ransacked her purse like the theif she is…..What are these females thinking? Tami said where she comes from they dont get the police involved……really? When there is a crime you report it to authorities; that is what grown ppl do. And that bullshit ass apology – chile please. VH1 has all you heathens trying to lighten the mood due to the backlash; its too late for that…no one is going to watch BBW. You are disgraceful and horrible human beings and you need to do more than apologize.
I have read all the blogs on Tammi. I can’t believe Keshia is cool with her!!!! I am done with BBW Miami. Take this off the show. VH1 needs to replace them with something else.
Tami, Evelyn, Shaunie, and Suzie should be banned from television. What a horrible example they set for children that are bullied everyday. Tami definitely has serious mental issues and she needs intense therapy…she may need electric shock therapy. I feel sorry for her daughters trying desperately to defend their mother on twitter Monday night. Please do not support Evelyn or Tammi in their business endeavors. They sell those tee shirts with all the negative connotations. Let’s turn off BBWs. Let’s demand better television for our families other than grown women playing into stereotypes that we are trying to get away from.
You have been talking behind Keisha’s back to Evelyn…..you’re doing exactly what you tell people NOT to do. And you’re a mom in her 40’s for crying out loud, enough of the bitching and fighting. High school is long gone.
Tami insinuated that Kesha had an Executive Producer in her pocket. Well isn’t your girl Shuanie an Executive Producer of the whacked sss show.
None of you all can fight except for Royce, because you flap you gums to much. A real hard core person ain’t time for all that gabbing.
Crissie off Love and Hip Hop is hard core. She just get the job done. Tami, Shaunie, Evelyn, Suzie yall all lame. And putting dead fish in Kenya’s room was another reason you all should be taken off the air. Shuanie stole money from her husband, Evelyn screw anything that shows her interest, Tami broke down beer drinking bully, and Suzie up everybody sss.
Take friggin show off the air and show some positive powerful black women. LAMES…..
Tami, you are a scum bag. Kesha should have given you a good down home Carolina ass whoopin. You only believe your own truth what ever that maybe. I wish I was on the island when that occurred. Not only would you have gotten chocked out, you would have been taught a lesson. The lessons you should be teaching your daughters. You should be shame of yourself. A couple of years ago you were rock bottom. God has given you an opportunity and your are pissing it away. With your stupid self. You stole mykia when she wasnt looking, then lied the next day staying she was going to attack you first. You stole Keshas purse stating you would not give it back until she ask you. Who in the he’ll do you think you are. And you keeping talking about some position in the group. Your a old long in the tooth fool, when you were confronted be Evelyn last season or what ever season about the things you said behind her back you lied and stated you never said it. When the clips clearly showed you did. Your a coward, and you call Kesha a liar. Tami the network should fire you and this would be your own doing for no self control or respect. You need your ass kick. Your an old sad ass person.
Tammi is a fool. Evelyn is a fool. Did the producers of BW think that black women are so low class and stupid that they would enjoy seeing other black women bully and beat each other? Shaunie probably thought she struck gold with all the violence. Black women aren’t like they are showed on tv with actions by a few idiots. We are hardworking, respectful of ourselves and others. And we don’t resort to violence over name calling. What kind of examples are Tammi and Evelyn setting for their daughters? Throwing bottles, walking barefoot on a table and threatening people with violence. I will never watch this show again. I use to watch for the fashion and friendship. Maybe, the show should just have Jennifer, Keisha, Royce, Mecha(?)- and I’m not even sure about Kenya-since took off her shoes to beat up Keisha. Black women have the world trying to say that we all have attitudes-we don’t-we hold up and support the entire black race by our determination to success and support ourselves and our families. We don’t want to or have time to act a fool.
Tami your a joke, you really are. I find you decisive, manipulating, evil, and in fact a big bully. You fight with everyone and it says a lot about your marriage w Kenny Anderson. I could only imagine how scared your children must be around you.
Whatever Keisha said you need to remember that she lives in a America just like you, and in America is the right to free speech. What I don’t recall is the right to terrorize, threaten and physically cause harm to another human being as one of our rights. No wonder why your ugly ass is single. What man in there right mind wants to date you.
Your actions towards Keisha were so over the top, you seriously need helps, and i mean help . No matter how mad I get, I could never live with myself knowing I caused serious fear to another human being.
And the rest of the girls, stop coat tailing this girl, she is a evil ruthless bitch
I just watched that heart breaking episode… I actually sat here and cried.. How dare Tami treat someone like that!! It was sad and it was ugly… How a grown women could treat another person like that is so immature .. What a great example to set for all the young girls watching this show.. This show should go in another direction and set good examples for all women… Stop the bullying.. It is not cute!!!
Dammit Tami. U are super strange. U make excuses for being the way you are and have the nerve to verbalize it in an articulate manner. I assume you want respect and you unfortunately only know one way to achieve it. Well u suck major monkey balls…. I’m a black women and I have a strong personality. I’m well respected because I show myself respectfully. I don’t know where u come from but I would take great pleasure in watching somebody come across your head. Real talk your disgusting and I can only imagine how your girls feel. Now they have to spend their time defending you. Dumb ass
Dammit Tami. U are super strange. U make excuses for being the way you are and have the nerve to verbalize it in an articulate manner. I assume you want respect and you unfortunately only know one way to achieve it. Well u suck major monkey balls…. I’m a black women and I have a strong personality. I’m well respected because I show myself respectfully. I don’t know where u come from but I would take great pleasure in watching somebody come across your head. Real talk your disgusting and I can only imagine how your girls feel. Now they have to spend their time defending you. Dumb ass
The show with Tami bullying keisha was indeed painful to watch. I wanted to take care of Tami “Bluto” Roman myself. Bad example for her daughters to have to live with.
i dont feel sorry for kesha as a bi racial women myself i would never let anyone speak to me that way. kesha get a back bone start off by slapping the hell out of SUSIE.we could do lunch i’ll show u how to handle those simple minded and scary heifers
TEEFING TAMI….if u want to slap someone bitch u have two children of your own plus another that you aborted on real world…why not go slap them you first class jackass…you make an excuse for all your stupidity so what if Keisha has a producer in her pocket, the only reason why you dont have one is because none of them want to have anything to do with tired pop dung you….get out of our sight no one really want to see your UGLY tired pop dung face…you are a disgrace…I should have you to deal with UGL
Tami is a bully and should be taken off the show. She is a bad example and criminal charges should be filed for her stealing the property of another cast member.
Tami is a Bully!!! Someday she will meet her match…
First of all let me say that I DO NOT feel sorry for Keisha AT ALL… Now with that being said all of these WHORES are SIMPLE. It was passed ridiculous last season. Each and every week they get on there saying how they are grown ass women and they ALL act a straight fool continuously. Shaunie is a great puppet master. Since everybody has an opinion on Tammi this is my take on the situation yes Tammi is an alcoholic and has several other issues. I do not agree with the way she acts because it’s a total embarrassment to her daughters and herself. I too saw Tammi when she was on RealWorld and I was not a fan of hers back then. However, I don’t totally disagree with her as many of you have said this is America and Keisha is allowed to say whatever in the hell she wants to say but we all know that there are consequences and repercussion for your actions the bottom line for me is that DON’T TALK SHIT if you can’t bag it up. Keisha talked all that shit and when it came down to her owning up to her shit she froze up because she is scary. Scary ass people should keep their mouths shut. If Keisha’s going to talk shit she needs to stop all that crying and take some self-defense classes before she gets popped in the mouth for real. I think Tammi really needs to get some REAL counseling because she is on a downhill slope to a fiery grave and it has been going on for at least 20 years. As for Jen and Evelyn I never liked either of them but I really do hate that there friendship was diminished to what it is now. Suzie she has and always will be messy as hell.
finally watched the episode a couple of months later. and purple girl u r soo wrong. Listern here hu made up that “u shudnt talk about ppl” rule that Kesha is expected to follow religiously? Besides Kesha was not talking about Tami she was jus recap on an event that she was part on and sayin what her opinion is on that matter. But Tami who keeps saying “whr I am from……” BItch who cares whr u r from, not everibody lives by that code, not everybodi is from there, so what if Tami said dont talk behind my back, y shud Kesha hav 2 adhere to Tami’s rules, esp after Tami has not ignores Kesha requirement. Rememeber when Kesha asked Tami to respect her, she said “I will respect you when I want to. Rememba when Kesha asked Tami not to call her a bitch, she said “Bitch, Bitch and more Bitch” But when Taaaaaami says dont talk behind my back Kesha shud just jump, Tami needs to learn tolerance then she wont expect ppl to act the way she wants, when she wants them to. She expects ppl not to call the police cause thats not how its done where she is from, she expects ppl not to be classy cause that is boogy whr is is from, she expects to make racist remarks bcoz according 2 her its not a big deal. Tami has certain rules that she expects ppl to adhere by, and she dont even wanna here nobody’s rules, sounds like a high-school bully to me. Cheap ARSE, skank, whore
Finally watched the episode a couple of months later. And purple girl u r so wrong. Listen here who made up that “u shouldn’t talk about people behind their back” rule? The golden rule that Keisha is expected to follow religiously? Besides Keisha was not talking about Tami, she was just recapping on an event that she was part of, and then stated her opinion. But Tami keeps saying “where I am from……” Bitch who cares where u r from? Not everybody lives by that code, not everybody is from that place. So what if Tami said “don’t talk behind my back” y should Keisha have 2 adhere to Tami’s rules, especially after Tami has ignored Keisha requirement. Remember when Keisha asked Tami to respect her, she said “I will respect you when I want to”. Remember when Keisha asked Tami not to call her a bitch, she said “Bitch, Bitch and more Bitch”. But when Taaaaaami says don’t talk behind my back, Keisha should just abide? Tami needs to learn tolerance then she won’t expect people to act the way she wants, when she wants them to. She expects people not to call the police, because that is not how it is done where she is from. She expects people not to be classy, because that is boogie where is from. She expects to make racist remarks, because according 2 her it is not a big deal. Tami has certain rules that she expects people to adhere by, and she doesn’t even wanna heat nobody’s rules. Sounds like a high-school bully to me. Tami is a Cheap ARSE, skank, delusional whore. Tami fought with Evelyn, Jennifer, Meeka, Keisha, She is just borderline abusive. NO WONDER SHE GOT HER ARSE RAPPED
I agree with Purplegirl. Kiesha need to keep her mouth shut if she cant back it up.
Keisha had every right to express her frustration about how she felt about her and Tammi. What is wrong with people posting she need to keep her mouth closed. Now that’s some Bull shit! Now people are expressing how they feel about Tammi and Keisha on this blog and no one is bullying them and ready to fight. Keisha said nothing threathening about Tammi to warrant that kind of treatment. Keisha wasn’t say: “Tammi am going to whoop your ass the next time i see u” and then backed down when Tammi called her out. That wasn’t the case! Her
only fault was expressing how she felt about Tammi to the wrong
person. Now that was nieve and stupid.