Karrine Steffans Gives Christina Milian Shade & Advice About Lil Wayne: Some sh*t is just the truth.

Here’s the thing about life. Not everything is about you. And if someone says or does something that has nothing to do with you but, somehow, you feel convicted by it, that says a lot more about you and your insecurities than it does about the other person. Not everything is shade. Some shit is just the truth. But not every palm tree or personal truth belongs to you. Other people have experiences, too, and their account of those experiences has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you.

Confidence is key and not everyone has it. This is obvious. Also, here’s the thing about men. They do what they want, how they want, when they want, and with whom they want. Just like women. Because of this, be careful when pouring expectations into people. We all have a history but look at a person’s patterns. I have mine. You have yours. The next person has theirs and they all tend to repeat. Know the difference between being one option on a very long list of options and being the one and only. Be truthful with yourself about the state of your affairs and you’ll never be mad a day in your life. None of us belong to eachother and we all belong to God. Be well.

Whew.

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