Tamar Braxton’s Fiancé, David Adefeso, Is Not Happy W/ Her Abstaining From Sex In ‘Get Ya Life’ Premiere: It’s A Terrible Idea

David Adefeso, Tamar Braxton

Tamar Braxton’s Fiancé, David Adefeso, Is Not Happy W/ Her Abstaining From Sex In ‘Get Ya Life’ Premiere: It’s A Terrible Idea

Tamar Braxton’s latest WeTV series Get Ya Life has just premiered Thursday (Sept. 10) and already the drama is piping hot. During the episode, Tamar Braxton and her fiancé, David Adefeso, seem to be on separate pages when it comes to their spiritual beliefs. Tamar Braxton shared with David Adefeso that she was advised by her celebrity creative coach, Goli Samii, to abstain from sex, alcohol, and drugs for 45 days to help her have clear dreams and reach her highest potential. David Adefeso, however, was not happy about it.

He told cameras,

“She just springs it up on me. [We have] to go 45 days without sex… That’s not funny.”

He asked Tamar Braxton who gave her the advice, and Tamar let him know he hasn’t met her yet. He responds,

“That’s a terrible idea.”

He added,

“Tamar’s interested in the dream work, but [as] a hardcore, born again, Jesus believing Christian, I really don’t know about who Goli is or how she does what she does. I’m not so sure that her methods are something that fits my own beliefs.”

He later asked her,

“How important is it for you, [on a] scale of one to 10?” 

She responded,

“A hundred.”

He replied,

“Okay. For me, sex, on a scale of one to 10 [is] 102. How about that?”

Earlier this summer The JasmineBrand exclusively reported that a source close to Tamar Braxton felt that David Adefeso is “very controlling” of Tamar and is angry over the way he’s portrayed in her new series. According to the source,

“David constantly acted like he wanted to be behind-the-scenes and didn’t want to be on camera, but when production began he was always trying to be on camera. Even when he wasn’t scheduled to be in a scene – he would make sure that he was involved in some way and would make the scene about him, so that he could get more time on camera. He wanted this to be the ‘David and Tamar’ show.”

However, following the initial release of the trailer for the reality series the source claims that David Adefeso became angry over the show.

“This reality show was different in that the audience saw exactly what was shot. Those scenes where he’s inserting himself into the process, yelling at Goli (Samii) and telling Tamar what to do and how to handle herself – that’s what really happened. And I don’t think he expected to come off like that – he doesn’t want the world to see that. He was livid when he saw it. This was supposed to be his big moment where he was officially introduced to the world and that’s not the image he wanted to portray.”

Tamar Braxton and David Adefeso have been making headlines a lot recently. As previously reported, David Adefeso filed a restraining order against Tamar Braxton due to his claims of domestic violence. According to David, Tamar attacked him while he was driving.

“Here’s the truth. I’ve been a victim of domestic violence, domestic assault. I was attacked. I was driving… and I was attacked, a blow to my neck, to my jugular. For those who know, the jugular, that carries blood to your brain. When you’re hit there, it discombobulates you. I thought I was gonna crash. I was driving fast. I had to call my mom… a 50-year-old guy having to call his mom when he’s driving, and my mom started praying.”

He continued,

“Tamar was in he car, my mom started praying; only to find out that after the blow, I was being secretly recorded. Something that’s illegal…And the tape’s been sent to my family. Tapes of me in distress, in pain, calling my mom, are being sent to my family and other people.”

However, Tamar Braxton allegedly claims that David Adefeso is the one who initially threatened her. According to reports, the pair got in a physical altercation the day Tamar Braxton was taken to a mental health facility following her alleged suicide attempt. David Adefeso allegedly became angry with Tamar after she told him he can’t be trusted. He reportedly grabbed her hard, left a bruise, and threatened to end both their lives in what he called a


Tamar Braxton allegedly became physical after he grabbed her.

What are your thoughts on David’s reaction? Let us know in the comments. 

Authored by: Twila-Amoure McDaniel