Tamar Braxton’s Ex Vincent Herbert Lashes Out At David Adefeso In Alleged Leaked Text Messages: We Are Not Friends & We Will Never Be After Hearing How You Treated Tamar

Alleged Text Messages From Tamar Braxton’s Ex Husband Vincent Herbert To Fiancé David Adefeso Have Leaked: We Are Not Friends And We Will Never Be After Hearing How You Treated Tamar

Tamar Braxton and Fiancé, David Adefeso’s relationship has been front and center since claims of domestic violence and abuse recently surfaced. Earlier this week, Tamar Braxton made claims that fiancé David Adefeso assaulted her and threatened a Murder- Suicide. Throughout these unfortunate events, it looks like the 43-year old singer is receiving support from her Ex-Husband Vincent Herbert. Text messages from Vincent to David have leaked (via Lailah Lynn) and it looks like Vincent is standing by his Ex-Wife’s side. In the alleged texts messages, Vincent addresses David’s alleged abuse towards Tamar as well as no longer allowing David to have a relationship with their son Logan. The alleged messages also reveal Vincent trying to coordinate with David in order to retrieve Tamar and Logan’s belongings.

Vincent says,

“I was only trying to keep the peace because Tamar has been saying she has been trying to retrieve her belongings.—-“It is now safe to say she’s moved on from this vile and abusive relationship and hearing the tape from the other day, I don’t blame her”.

He Continues,

“We are not friends. And we will never be after hearing how you treated Tamar on Sunday. My conversation with you yesterday was respectful and honest and you never mentioned what you said to her, how you threatened her, then called the police on her as if it wasn’t you on the tape that I heard threatening to kill Logan’s mother.”



Vincent goes on to tell David that he will no longer have contact with his son Logan Herbert,

“After I make sure Tamar and Logan’s belongings are cleared out of your home, there is no need to contact you, nor for you to never contact Logan. I trust that you will have her watch that’s in your car, various boxes in Logan’s room, and everything else packed neatly so we can have this done privately and quickly.”


As previously reported, David Adefeso had a much different version to the story and reported that Tamar Braxton was physically abusive towards him which led him to file a restraining order out against her. He said,

“Here’s the truth. I’ve been a victim of domestic violence, domestic assault. I was attacked. I was driving… and I was attacked, a blow to my neck, to my jugular. For those who know, the jugular, that carries blood to your brain. When you’re hit there, it discombobulates you. I thought I was gonna crash. I was driving fast. I had to call my mom… a 50-year-old guy having to call his mom when he’s driving, and my mom started praying.”

“Tamar was in  he car, my mom started praying; only to find out that after the blow, I was being secretly recorded. Something that’s illegal…And the tape’s been sent to my family. Tapes of me in distress, in pain, calling my mom, are being sent to my family and other people.”

We will continue to keep Tamar Braxton in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Authored by: Monique Nicole